Am I a player...please answer people?

okay i knoe this might be long but please read it and put yur qeustion in yur anwer and I will try to answer it... Okay so I went out with this girl Alexis and then I broke up with her and then we stopped talking for a while. A little later we started talking again and I told her I kinda liked her again and she felt tha same way. So Then I started to like this other girl Lindsey so I told Alexis that I didnt want to go out with her but I still wanted to do stuff like makeout