Am I a b**tch?

I am a GWM who was gay married to the most wionerful man for 18 yeras (although no t recognosed by the government)). Bu t I just got off the phone with him and was just so bit8y wih him, than I cannot vbelieve it..........What do I do now; he is still just a great guy? BTW we have been divorced for 13 years ?